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How do I forgive myself for not being able to pay my medical bills?

Answer:

Forgiving yourself for not being able to pay your medical bills is a process that requires humility and a willingness to let go of the burden of guilt. As I reflect on the cost of forgiveness, I'm reminded of the story of President Ford forgiving Richard Nixon, and the parable of the king forgiving his servant in Matthew 18. True forgiveness requires a costly sacrifice, and it's not just about forgiving others, but also about forgiving ourselves.

As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with feelings of guilt and shame when they're unable to pay their debts. But the truth is, forgiveness is not about paying back what we owe, but about acknowledging our limitations and weaknesses. When we try to pay back what we owe through petty insinuations or guilt trips, we're not truly forgiving ourselves or others. Instead, we're trying to control the situation and avoid taking responsibility for our actions.

To forgive yourself for not being able to pay your medical bills, you need to take the initiative to let go of the guilt and shame. This means acknowledging your limitations and weaknesses, and recognizing that you did the best you could with the resources you had. It's not about beating yourself up over what could have been done differently, but about embracing your humanity and seeking forgiveness from God. As the Bible says, "Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits: who forgives all your iniquities" (Psalm 103:2).

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