can i still be a good partner when i'm struggling with chronic pain?

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As a pastor and a husband, I've seen firsthand the impact of chronic pain on relationships. While it's natural to want to alleviate suffering, I believe that suffering can be a catalyst for growth and deeper connection with our partner. When Susan and I were first married, we faced some tough times, but we learned to lean on each other and on our faith. We came to realize that our struggles were not just about us, but about how we could support and care for each other in the midst of hardship.

I've seen many couples who, when faced with chronic pain, become distant and disconnected. They may feel like they're just going through the motions, trying to avoid the pain rather than facing it together. But I believe that's a missed opportunity. When we face our pain together, we can develop a deeper empathy and understanding for each other. We can learn to appreciate the small things, like a good cup of coffee or a beautiful sunset, and we can find joy in the midst of suffering.

As a Christian, I believe that suffering is not just a natural part of life, but a opportunity to draw closer to God and to grow in our faith. When we're struggling with chronic pain, it's easy to feel like we're losing control or that our lives are being turned upside down. But I believe that's a chance to surrender to God and to trust in His goodness, even when we don't understand what's happening. By doing so, we can find a sense of peace and contentment that transcends our circumstances, and we can build a stronger, more resilient relationship with our partner.

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