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How can I trust my family again after what they did to me?

Answer:

I can relate to the pain of feeling betrayed by your family. As a pastor, I've seen many families struggle with forgiveness and trust. It's not easy to let go of the hurt and pain, but it's a necessary step towards healing and reconciliation. I've had to work through similar issues with my own family, and I've learned that forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or excusing their actions, but rather choosing to release the anger and hurt.

As I reflect on my own experiences, I've come to realize that trust is earned, not entitled. My wife, Susan, and I have had to work through our own issues of trust and forgiveness over the years, and it's not always easy. But we've learned to communicate openly and honestly with each other, and to seek forgiveness when we've wronged each other. I've also learned that trust is not just about my family, but also about my relationship with God. When I'm struggling with trust issues, I try to remember that God is faithful and trustworthy, and that He can help me to trust Him and others.

In terms of rebuilding trust with your family, I would encourage you to start by being honest and open with them. Communicate your feelings and concerns, and listen to theirs as well. It's also important to seek forgiveness and to be willing to forgive others. As the Bible says, "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." (Colossians 3:13) By seeking forgiveness and being willing to forgive, you can begin to rebuild trust and strengthen your relationships with your family.

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