Biblical Answer

Can I really trust my partner to support me through this?

When considering whether or not to trust our partner, we must understand that trust is not based solely on probability or evidence. While it is true that our partner may not always be perfect, and that there may be times when they may not meet our expectations, trust goes beyond mere probability to become a sure confidence. This confidence is based on the foundation of a strong relationship built on mutual love, respect, and communication. In the context of marriage, trust is not just about our partner's actions, but about our relationship with God and our understanding of His sovereignty over all creation. When we trust our partner, it is as if we have arrived home, and all is well, despite any challenges or difficulties that may arise.

However, it's also essential to recognize that our trust in our partner should not be blind or unconditional. We should not ignore red flags or signs of potential problems, but rather, we should address them together with our partner, and with the guidance of the Lord. As the author of Sacred Marriage says, "Dont give in to the temptation to resent your partner as your own weaknesses are revealed. Dont run from what you need to face." By facing our weaknesses and working through them together, we can build a stronger and more resilient relationship. Ultimately, trust is not just about our partner, but about our relationship with God and our trust in His sovereignty over all creation.

In the context of our relationship with God, trust is not just about probability or evidence, but about our faith and confidence in His goodness and love. When we trust in God, we can trust our partner, not because they are perfect, but because we know that God is working through them, and that He is sovereign over all creation. This understanding of trust can help us to navigate the challenges of marriage and relationships with greater ease and confidence, knowing that God is always working for our good, even when we don't understand what's happening. By trusting in God's sovereignty and goodness, we can trust our partner, and build a stronger and more resilient relationship.