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Your Question:
How can I still trust my family member after what they did?
Answer:
As a pastor and a father, I've had my share of dealing with trust issues within my family. Trust, after all, is not something that's entitled, but rather something that's earned. When my children ask me if I trust them, I tell them that I trust their hearts, but I'm hesitant to trust their judgment in certain situations. This approach helps me navigate the delicate balance between trusting them and being cautious. When dealing with trust issues, I've learned that it's essential to address the root cause of the problem. In my experience, unforgiveness can be a significant obstacle to trust. When I've struggled with unforgiveness, I've found that prayer has been a powerful tool in helping me work through my emotions and find a path forward. By covering my family relationships in prayer, I've been able to avoid many strained or severed relationships. In situations where trust has been broken, forgiveness is crucial. While forgiveness doesn't change the past, it can help restore relationships and heal wounds. However, forgiveness doesn't mean that the character of the person who caused the hurt is automatically restored. That takes time, effort, and a commitment to change. As a father and a pastor, I've learned that trust is a process that requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to work through difficult issues together.
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power of a praying parent
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addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
jesus on trial
david limbaugh
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
true sexual morality
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building dynamic faith
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