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Can i ever forgive my family member for betraying me?

Answer:

Forgiveness is a process, not an event. It's something that requires ongoing effort and commitment. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with unforgiveness, especially when it comes to family members. It's easy to get stuck in a cycle of resentment and bitterness, but that's exactly what the enemy wants.

As I reflect on my own family dynamics, I see a pattern of unforgiveness that has been passed down through generations. My wife, Susan, and I have been married for 19 years, and we've worked hard to break this cycle. We've had to confront our own weaknesses and failures, and we've had to choose to forgive each other over and over again. It's not always easy, but it's necessary for our relationship to grow and thrive.

The Bible is clear that forgiveness is a requirement for our own healing and freedom. As Ephesians 4:31-32 says, "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or excusing the hurt, but it means releasing the offender from our judgment and choosing to love and forgive them anyway. It's a choice that requires humility, courage, and a willingness to let go of our own anger and resentment.

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power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
meaning of marriage
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true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
depression
edward welch
sacred marriage
gary thomas

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