Biblical Answer

The Balance of Helping Others and Meeting Our Own Needs

The Importance of Self-Care

Before we can effectively help others, we need to take care of ourselves. This is not a selfish act, but rather a wise one. As the proverb says, "A wise person seeks advice and listens to advice" (Proverbs 19:20). When we are physically, emotionally, and spiritually drained, we cannot be as effective in helping others. We must prioritize our own needs and seek help when we need it.

The Value of Community

God has distributed many blessings and gifts to each of us, and we are called to use these to help others. However, we are not alone in this endeavor. We need the support and help of friends, neighbors, and community. As the proverb says, "We will receive better care from a neighbor who is physically close than a brother who is distant" (Proverbs 27:10). By valuing and prioritizing community, we can receive the help and support we need to effectively help others.

The Principle of Giving What We Have

The Bible teaches us that we are to give what we have, even if it's not much. As the proverb says, "Give what you have, not what you don't have" (Matthew 10:8). This principle is not just about giving financially, but also about giving our time, energy, and resources. By giving what we have, we are not only helping others, but we are also being set free from our own burdens and needs. As we give, we receive, and this is a powerful spiritual principle that can bring freedom and joy to our lives.