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How do I cope with the loss of my independence?

Answer:

The loss of independence. It's a difficult pill to swallow, isn't it? As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with this issue. But let me tell you, it's not about being weak or strong, it's about understanding our place in the world. Independence can be a sign of self-reliance, but it's not a biblical truth. God has called us to be interdependent, to rely on Him and on each other.

When we lose our independence, it can be unsettling. But instead of fighting against it, we should ask the Lord to put awareness of Himself in us. When we focus on God, He becomes magnificently larger than any troubles we may face. He uses troubles to make us stronger and better. So, instead of resisting the loss of independence, we should see it as an opportunity to grow in faith. We should determine what our reaction will be to both little and big self-made problems, and proactively apply a new strategy to handle failure.

As I reflect on my own life, I think about how my wife Susan and I have learned to rely on each other and on God. We've had our share of struggles, but we've come to understand that our independence is not the key to happiness. It's our interdependence that brings us true freedom. So, if you're struggling with the loss of independence, remember that it's not the end of the world. It's an opportunity to grow in faith and to rely on the Lord. As the psalmist says, "I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living." (Psalm 27:13)

Sources:

my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
sacred marriage
gary thomas
building dynamic faith
jerry falwell
dogmatic theology
shedd

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