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Your Question:
How do I explain this to my kids when I have no answers?
Answer:
As a father of two teenagers, I've learned that it's not always easy to explain things to them when we don't have answers. When Joshua and Rebecca come to me with questions or concerns, I try to get down to their level and ask open-ended questions to help them open up. I'll say something like, "You seem sad/angry; what happened?" or "You're wondering why God didn't answer our prayers; what do you think might be going on?" This helps me understand their perspective and find out what's really bothering them. Sometimes, they may not want to talk about it, and that's okay. I'll reassure them that they're still loved and that we'll talk about it when they're ready. I've learned that it's essential to be patient and not push them to talk if they're not ready. As a pastor, I've seen many parents struggle with this, and I've come to realize that it's a normal part of the parenting journey. We need to create a safe and non-judgmental space for our children to express themselves and work through their feelings. When I don't have an answer to their question, I'll say something like, "I don't know, but let's explore this together." This acknowledges their curiosity and shows them that we're willing to learn and grow together. It's not about having all the answers; it's about being present, listening, and guiding them as they navigate life's challenges. By doing so, we help our children develop critical thinking skills, learn to ask questions, and trust in our guidance.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
the war on children
john macarthur
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