How do we balance our own needs with helping others in a chaotic world?

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As a pastor and a husband, I've come to realize that balancing our own needs with helping others is a delicate dance. Stephen Covey's quote, "We achieve inner peace when our schedule aligns with our values," resonates with me. When my schedule is aligned with my values, I feel a sense of peace and contentment that allows me to serve others more effectively. However, when my schedule is out of whack, I feel anxious and drained, just like Covey described.

As a parent, I've learned that prioritizing my own needs is essential to being a better husband and father. When I take care of myself, I have more energy and patience to devote to my family. But it's not just about me; it's about living out my values as a Christian. As the Bible says, "Be of the same mind toward one another" (Romans 12:16). This means being humble and willing to put others' needs before my own. It's a daily struggle, but one that I believe is essential to living a life of purpose and meaning.

In our chaotic world, it's easy to get caught up in the idea that we need to meet all our own needs before we can help others. But Scripture suggests that this approach can lead to a greater sense of emptiness and disconnection. As Jesus said, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God" (Matthew 5:9). Being a peacemaker means being willing to put others' needs before my own, even when it's hard. It means being a servant-leader, rather than a self-centered individual. This is the kind of balance I strive for in my own life, and one that I believe is essential to living a life of true fulfillment and purpose.

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