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Can I really trust my partner?
Answer:
As I reflect on trust in relationships, I'm reminded of my own marriage to Susan. We've been together for 19 years, and I've come to realize that trust is not something you give blindly, but rather something that's earned over time. When Joshua and Rebecca were younger, they'd often ask me if I trusted them, and I'd say, "I trust you; I know your heart is gold." But I'd also add that I'm hesitant to trust their judgment in certain circumstances, and that we need to work together on that. I think this approach is similar to how we should view trust in God. While we can have confidence in His character and infinite glory, we also need to acknowledge that trust is a process that develops over time. It's not something we can simply give to someone or something without putting in the effort to understand and know them. And just like how we need to work together with our children to develop their judgment, we also need to cultivate our relationship with God through prayer, scripture, and obedience. In the context of marriage, trust is essential, but it's not a one-time decision. Rather, it's a continuous process of growth and development. When we make mistakes or fail to meet each other's expectations, it's essential to be open and honest about our past, rather than keeping secrets. This allows us to work through our issues and build a stronger, more trusting relationship. And I think this is where faith in Christ comes in – it provides a foundation for trust that's not based on human performance, but on God's character and promises.
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