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how do i deal with the guilt of not being able to provide for my family?

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The guilt of not being able to provide for my family. I can relate to that feeling, especially as a pastor who's supposed to be a good steward of God's resources. But I've learned that it's not just about providing financially; it's about being present and available to my family. As a husband and father, I've had to learn to prioritize my time and energy to make sure I'm not missing out on important moments with Susan and the kids.

I remember when Joshua was younger, he would often ask me to attend his baseball games or help him with his homework. And I'd feel guilty if I had to say no because of a church commitment or a sermon to prepare. But Susan would remind me that it's not just about providing financially; it's about being a good father and husband. And I've come to realize that it's okay to say no sometimes and prioritize what's truly important.

As I reflect on my own struggles with guilt and provision, I'm reminded of the importance of forgiveness and letting go of the need to control everything. As a pastor, I've seen many families struggle with similar issues, and I've learned that it's not about being perfect; it's about being present and available to one another. By God's grace, I've learned to let go of the guilt and focus on being a good husband, father, and pastor.

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raising kids to follow christ
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