Biblical Answer

The Teaching of Jesus on Divorce

Jesus taught that divorce is not permissible in marriage, except in cases of unfaithfulness. This teaching is rooted in Gods original intent for marriage, which is permanence. In Matthew 19:3-9, Jesus quotes Genesis 1:27 and 2:24 to emphasize the importance of marriage as a lifelong commitment. He teaches that a man should not divorce his wife, and that if he does, he is guilty of adultery.

The Exception of Unfaithfulness

While Jesus taught that divorce is not permissible, he does make an exception for cases of unfaithfulness. In Matthew 19:9, Jesus says that if a man divorces his wife because of her unfaithfulness, and she marries another man, and the man also marries another woman, then the man commits adultery. This exception is not because Jesus is condoning divorce, but because he is acknowledging the hardness of hearts that leads to unfaithfulness. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, the Apostle Paul reiterates this teaching, saying that a husband should not divorce his wife, except for unfaithfulness.

The Implications of Jesus' Teaching

The teaching of Jesus on divorce has significant implications for believers today. It emphasizes the importance of commitment and permanence in marriage. It also highlights the seriousness of unfaithfulness and the need for forgiveness and restoration in relationships. While the majority position on divorce among evangelicals allows for initiation of divorce for physical adultery, Jesus' teaching suggests that divorce should be viewed as a last resort, and that every effort should be made to restore the relationship. Ultimately, Jesus' teaching on divorce is a call to live out the biblical values of commitment, forgiveness, and restoration in our relationships.