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Can love turn to anger when we feel unheard?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many couples struggle with anger in their relationships. It's not uncommon for love to turn to anger when we feel unheard. When we're not being listened to, our emotions can become raw and our anger can simmer just below the surface. This is especially true in marriage, where we're supposed to feel safe and heard by our partner. The Bible reminds us that love is patient and kind, but anger can quickly take over when we feel marginalized or pushed away. As a husband and father, I've had to confront my own anger and learn to communicate effectively with my wife, Susan, and our children, Joshua and Rebecca. When we feel unheard, it's easy to become defensive and angry, but that's not a healthy way to resolve conflicts. Instead, we need to learn to listen to each other and communicate our needs and feelings in a constructive way. In my own marriage, I've learned that love is not just a feeling, but a choice. When I feel unheard or frustrated, I need to choose to respond in love, rather than anger. This means taking a deep breath, listening to Susan's perspective, and seeking to understand her needs and feelings. It's not always easy, but it's worth it to build a stronger, more loving relationship with my wife and family. By choosing to respond in love, even when we feel angry or unheard, we can create a more peaceful and loving home.
Sources:
1 corinthians
thomas schreiner
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
depression
edward welch
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
colossians philemon
n t wright
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
sacred marriage
gary thomas
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