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Your Question:
Can I still be a good friend if I'm struggling to take care of myself?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with their own well-being, and it's often a challenge to maintain friendships when we're not feeling our best. However, I believe that being a good friend isn't about having it all together, but about being willing to show up and be present for others, even when it's hard. In the book of Proverbs, it's said that real friends are characterized by constancy and transparency. This means being reliable and honest, even when we're not feeling our most friendly. It's about being willing to put on a friendly manner, even when we don't feel like it, because that's often the first step towards really feeling friendly. As the verse says, "Iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another" (Proverbs 27:17). By being a good friend, even when we're struggling, we can create space for real connection and growth. As someone who's struggled with my own doubts and fears, I can attest to the importance of being a good friend, even when it's hard. It's not about pretending to be someone we're not, but about being willing to be vulnerable and authentic with others. By being a good friend, we can create a sense of community and support that can help us through even the toughest times. And as the Bible says, "Friendship is one of God's good gifts and is too important a gift to treat lightly" (Proverbs 27:9).
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mere christianity
c s lewis
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
proverbs
lindsay wilson
practicing the way
john mark comer
depression
edward welch
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
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