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How do I explain this to my children and not scare them?

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As a pastor and a father, I've dealt with my share of fears and anxieties in my children, Joshua and Rebecca. When it comes to explaining fears to them, I always try to be honest and reassuring. I believe that fear is an opportunity to show them the importance and power of prayer. When they're scared, I get down to their level, look them in the eye, and speak in a calm voice. I acknowledge their fear and pray with them, reminding them that God is always with them and that He loves them.

It's also essential to explain that fear is not from God. I tell them that there's a spirit of fear that can try to intimidate us, but we have the authority and power through Jesus Christ to resist it. I remind them that Jesus gave us authority over all the power of the enemy, and that we have the power to overcome fear. I also use a simple yet effective tool - a spray bottle of water. I tell them that if they see "monsters" in their room, we can spray some water and say "In Jesus' name, be gone!" It's a fun way to encourage them to speak the powerful name of Jesus over the physical spaces they're in.

As a parent, it's crucial to be aware of the fears that our children are experiencing. Sometimes, it's not just about the fear itself, but about what's causing it. By asking them to explain their fears, we can often discover another question or concern behind it. For example, if they're afraid of monsters, they might be wondering why they can't trust their own ability to protect themselves. By being honest and transparent, we can help our children understand the truth about fear and God's love for them. And, as a family, we can work together to overcome fear and build a stronger relationship with God.

Sources:

raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
the war on children
john macarthur

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