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can i still be a good friend when i'm struggling with my own mental health?

Answer:

I can relate to the struggles of depression and its impact on relationships. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with mental health issues, and it's not uncommon for them to feel like they're a burden to those around them. However, I believe that with the right support and mindset, it's possible to maintain healthy friendships even in the midst of struggle.

When I'm feeling overwhelmed, I remind myself that I'm not alone, and that God is always with me. As the passage says, "You can be friends with Jesus... sit before Jesus daily, letting him speak to you, teach you, direct you, and, above all, love you." This helps me to reorient my focus and find joy in the midst of darkness. I also try to be patient and understanding with those around me, just as I would want them to be with me if I were struggling.

It's not always easy, but I believe that being a good friend means being present and supportive, even when it's hard. As the author says, "Sticking with the person you love through the stressful dramas of mood disorder can eventually be incredibly rewarding." I've seen this in my own marriage to Susan - after 19 years, we've learned to navigate the ups and downs together, and our friendship has only grown stronger because of it.

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depression
edward welch
practicing the way
john mark comer
mere christianity
c s lewis
why does god allow evil
clay jones
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch

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