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Your Question:
How do I tell my kids that Daddy is going to lose the house?
Answer:
Telling your kids that Daddy is going to lose the house can be a difficult conversation, but it's essential to approach it with love and honesty. As a pastor and a father, I've learned that it's crucial to have clear rules and consequences in the home. Instead of saying "Be nicer to your siblings," I would say, "Demeaning comments to anyone in the house are not allowed." This way, the expectation is clear, and there's no room for misinterpretation. However, it's also essential to remember that our kids are learning from us, and as parents, we are their primary role models. If we're not living with a heart of obedience and an open-hearted, non-negotiating attitude towards God, how can we expect our kids to do the same? As I reflect on my own parenting, I've realized that I've lost my temper and yelled at Joshua in the past. But it's not about being nice; it's about demonstrating compassion and encouragement. When it comes to letting go of your kids, it's essential to do it well. As our children grow older, they need to learn to build their own homes and make their own decisions. It's not about kicking them out of the house but about giving them the freedom to make mistakes and learn from them. As I look at my own family, I want Joshua and Rebecca to know that they will always have a home with us, but they also need to learn to take responsibility for their actions and make their own decisions.
Sources:
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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