Biblical Answer

How do I tell my kids?

Telling your kids about the importance of cleaning out their hearts every day for the rest of their lives can be a challenging conversation, but it's essential to have with them. As mentioned in the provided text, you want them to learn how to do this, not sleep on it. To have this conversation, start by getting their attention and making it easy for them to understand. Keep the conversation in the "green zone," the encouragement zone, and take their personalities, temperaments, birth order, and maturity into account. This will help you relate to them and make the conversation more effective.

When having this conversation, it's essential to be honest and transparent with your kids. As the text suggests, never lie and try not to break a promise to your children. They desire and deserve honesty and loyalty from you. They may become fearful when they learn they cannot trust their parents. Also, make sure to pray for your children, pray that they will come to know Jesus and pray that they will follow Him faithfully throughout their lives. This will help you build trust between you, your child, and God.

To have a successful conversation with your kids, it's crucial to create a safe and comfortable environment for them to express their feelings and thoughts. Ask heart-probing questions like "Most children will express their feelings when they feel they can trust you." This will help them open up and feel comfortable talking to you. Remember, your goal is not to embarrass or scold them but to guide them in cleaning out their hearts and developing a personal relationship with Jesus. By being patient, understanding, and loving, you can help your kids learn this essential life skill and develop a strong foundation for their faith. The final answer is: Be honest, transparent, and patient when having this conversation with your kids. Create a safe and comfortable environment for them to express their feelings and thoughts, and pray for their spiritual growth and development.