Biblical Answer

The Christian View on Divorce

A person can still be a good Christian even if they're divorced, but it depends on the circumstances. The Bible teaches that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:14-16), and it's not something He takes lightly. However, there are exceptions to this rule. In 1 Corinthians 7:15, the Apostle Paul says that a Christian can accept a divorce initiated by an unbelieving spouse. This means that if a Christian is married to someone who doesn't believe in God, and that person wants a divorce, the Christian can accept it.

But what about when a Christian initiates a divorce? In this case, the Bible teaches that Christians should not divorce their spouses, even if they're unhappy or have irreconcilable differences. In Matthew 19:3-9, Jesus teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment, and that divorce is only permissible in cases of infidelity. Even in cases where a Christian feels that they've been wronged by their spouse, they're still expected to forgive and work towards reconciliation. This is because God's plan for marriage is one of mutual submission and love (Ephesians 5:25-33).

So, can a person still be a good Christian if they're divorced? The answer is yes, but only if they've acted in accordance with God's teachings. If a Christian has initiated a divorce without a valid reason, they may be considered guilty of sin. However, if they've accepted a divorce initiated by an unbelieving spouse, or if they've divorced their spouse due to infidelity, they may still be considered a good Christian. Ultimately, it's not the divorce itself that defines a person's character, but how they respond to the situation and whether they've sought to follow God's teachings. A good Christian will seek to forgive, reconcile, and work towards healing, even in the midst of difficult circumstances.