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What is the value of forgiveness in our personal lives?
Answer:
As a pastor and a husband, I've come to realize the value of forgiveness in our personal lives. Forgiveness is not just a moral virtue, but a necessary act of self-defense against the fatal bleeding of resentment. When we choose to forgive, we're not just releasing the other person from our judgment, but also freeing ourselves from the burden of bitterness and anger. Forgiveness is a process, not an event, and it takes practice to perfect it. In my marriage of 19 years, I've learned that forgiveness is essential for a healthy and thriving relationship. When Susan and I disagree or hurt each other, forgiveness is not just a nice gesture, but a necessary step towards healing and reconciliation. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting what happened or excusing the other person's behavior, but rather choosing to release the offense and restore the relationship. As the Bible says, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32). As a parent, I also recognize the importance of teaching my children the value of forgiveness. When Joshua and Rebecca make mistakes or hurt each other, I encourage them to apologize and forgive one another. Forgiveness is not just a moral virtue, but a way of life that requires practice and discipline. As Jesus taught, "Forgive as we have been forgiven" (Matthew 6:12). By modeling forgiveness in my own life and teaching my children to do the same, I'm equipping them to live a life of love, compassion, and reconciliation.
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sacred marriage
gary thomas
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
acts
r c sproul
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
jesus on trial
david limbaugh
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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