Biblical Answer

Can love revive a dying flame when we're feeling overwhelmed?

The Myth of Love as a Fleeting Feeling

Many people believe that love is a fleeting feeling, a spark that can be easily extinguished by the challenges and difficulties of life. According to this view, love is a temporary high that can be enjoyed in the early stages of a relationship, but eventually fades away as the relationship becomes more routine and mundane. This perspective on love is often reflected in the way people approach relationships, prioritizing the thrill of the initial attraction over the long-term commitment and sacrifice required for true love to flourish.

The Reality of Love as a Choice

However, this view of love is misguided. True love is not a feeling that can be revived by romantic gestures or grand declarations, but rather a choice that requires commitment, sacrifice, and perseverance. As the Bible says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). This kind of love is not based on emotions, but on a deep commitment to the well-being and happiness of the other person. When we choose to love in this way, we are not controlled by our feelings, but rather by our values and principles.

The Power of God's Love

In the midst of feeling overwhelmed, it's easy to lose sight of the reality of God's love for us. But this is where the true power of love resides. God's love is not a fleeting feeling, but a relentless and unwavering commitment to our well-being and happiness. As the Bible says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness." (Jeremiah 31:3). This kind of love is not based on our emotions, but on God's character and nature. When we choose to trust in God's love, we are able to persevere through even the most difficult challenges, and our love for others is transformed by the power of His love. In this way, love can indeed revive a dying flame, not by reviving our fleeting feelings, but by deepening our commitment to the values and principles of God's love.