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Can love revive a dying flame when we're feeling overwhelmed?
Answer:
As a pastor and a husband, I've seen firsthand the power of love to revive a dying flame. In my 19 years of marriage to Susan, there have been times when the spark seemed to be fading, but through committed love and service to one another, we've been able to rekindle the flame. It's not always easy, and it requires effort and sacrifice, but it's possible to love someone even when the emotions aren't there. In fact, I believe that actions of love can lead consistently to feelings of love. When we choose to serve and love our spouse, even when it's hard, it can create a sense of connection and intimacy that can be just as powerful as romantic feelings. As the Scripture says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." (1 Corinthians 13:4-5) For me, this has been especially true in my relationship with Susan. There have been times when I haven't felt like being romantic or affectionate, but I've chosen to act out of love and serve her anyway. And you know what? Over time, my feelings have caught up with my actions, and we've been able to rekindle the flame of romance in our marriage. It's not always easy, but it's possible with a commitment to love and serve one another, even when the emotions aren't there.
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true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
christian theology
millard erickson
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
history eschatology
n t wright
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