Biblical Answer

The Bible teaches us that we have a responsibility to care for our families. In fact, the Bible says that God is a God of covenant, and one of the key covenants He made with humanity was the covenant of marriage and family (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). As a result, we are to prioritize the needs of our families and provide for them as best we can. This doesn't mean that we have to have all the answers or that we will never struggle. In fact, the Bible says that we will struggle and that we will face difficult times (Psalm 119:71, 2 Corinthians 4:17). But it does mean that we should not feel guilty for not being able to provide for our families in the way that we want to.

In fact, the Bible teaches us that it's not just about being able to provide financially for our families. It's about being able to provide emotionally and spiritually as well. This means being present for our children, being a good role model, and teaching them about God's love and character. It means being a source of comfort and strength for our families during difficult times. And it means being willing to sacrifice our own desires and interests for the good of our families. As the Bible says, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her" (Ephesians 5:25). This kind of selfless love is what it means to be a good parent and a good family member.

So, why do you feel guilty for not being able to provide for your family? I would suggest that it's because you are comparing yourself to others and feeling like you're not measuring up. But the Bible teaches us that we are to compare ourselves to God, not to others (2 Corinthians 10:12). We are to focus on our own walk with God and our own relationship with Him, rather than comparing ourselves to others. And we are to trust in God's sovereignty and provision, knowing that He is our Rock and our Refuge (Psalm 18:2). So, let's not compare ourselves to others and let's not feel guilty for not being able to provide for our families. Instead, let's focus on being faithful to God and trusting in His goodness and provision.