Biblical Answer

Regaining Your Sense of Self

Regaining your sense of self can be a challenging and ongoing process, especially when beset by habits, sins, and character flaws. However, the Bible offers a clear path for liberation and spiritual growth. The first step is to acknowledge and confront your weaknesses, just as David did when he said, "Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there is any wicked way in me" (Ps 139:23-24). By being honest with ourselves and God, we open the door for the Spirit of God to work in our hearts, revealing areas where we need to grow.

As we examine our lives, we may realize that we have become sluggish in our spiritual growth, losing interest in our relationship with God. This can often be attributed to a point where we stopped doing what we knew we should be doing. Self-control, a strategic countermeasure to the insatiable cravings of sin, is essential for overcoming besetting sins. This requires faith, as it involves exercising control over our bodily desires, which can be a lifelong process. Relapses are not uncommon, but with the help of the Holy Spirit, we can overcome these setbacks and continue on the path of growth.

To regain our sense of self, we must focus on the things that bring us closer to God, such as prayer, scripture reading, and fellowship with other believers. We must also be willing to confront our weaknesses and seek help from others. As we walk this path, we must keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, who is our ultimate hope and source of strength. By doing so, we can break free from the oppression of self-awareness and allow God to be our all in all. In this way, we can experience the joy and liberation that comes from living a life that reflects our true identity in Christ. As we journey towards self-discovery, we must be mindful of our tendency to focus on ourselves and instead, look to God for guidance and direction. This is the path of hope, and it is only through this path that we can truly regain our sense of self. Choose a plan for growth, and seek the help of others, and you will find that with God's help, you can overcome your weaknesses and become the person He created you to be. In doing so, you will discover a new sense of self, one that is liberated from sin and flaws, and is always a work in progress. As you grow in your faith, you will find that you are becoming more like Christ, and that is the greatest sense of self you can ever experience.