As I reflect on the question of what happens when we choose between love and anger, I'm reminded of the teachings of Scripture. According to James 1:19, anger is quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. However, love, as described in Matthew 18:21-35, remembers its own offenses and sins and the great forgiveness received, and therefore does not constantly pick at others. This is a stark contrast to the way anger operates, which often involves a record of wrongs and a focus on judgment.
When we choose between love and anger, we must consider what drives our emotions. Anger, as described in the passage, is often rooted in a desire for control, power, or revenge. It can also be a manifestation of a deeper issue, such as a lack of trust in God or a failure to imitate Him. In contrast, love is characterized by a willingness to forgive and let go of past offenses. As I reflect on my own life and ministry as a pastor, I've seen time and time again how love and forgiveness can bring healing and restoration, even in the face of great hurt and betrayal.
Ultimately, when we choose between love and anger, we must consider the nature of God Himself. As Scripture says, God is holy and just, and He hates what is hateful and is angry at what merits wrath (Psalm 5:4-6). However, this anger is not driven by a desire for revenge or control, but rather by a desire to uphold what is right and just. As I seek to imitate God in my own life, I'm reminded that love and forgiveness are not weaknesses, but rather strengths that can bring healing and restoration to myself and others.