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Your Question:
Why did my adult child betray me like this?
Answer:
I can relate to the pain and confusion you're feeling. As a parent, it's natural to feel betrayed when our child questions our authority or our methods. But, as I've come to realize, it's often a sign that our child is developing their own thoughts and opinions, and they're trying to figure out what's right and wrong on their own. In my experience, it's essential to remember that our children are learning from us, and they mimic our tone, expressions, and communication style. So, if we're not modeling a heart of obedience and a willingness to listen, it's no wonder our children might start to question our authority. When my 17-year-old son, Joshua, began to challenge me, I realized that I had been making judgment calls and expressing my opinions without considering his perspective. I took a step back, prayed for wisdom, and asked God to reveal any ungodly strongholds that might be influencing Joshua's behavior. It's not about being perfect or never making mistakes; it's about being willing to listen, apologize when we're wrong, and model a heart of obedience to our children. When Joshua and I talked through his concerns, I realized that I had been unintentionally stifling his independence and critical thinking skills. By listening to him and acknowledging my mistakes, we were able to work through our differences and strengthen our relationship. It's a process, and it requires patience, humility, and a willingness to grow and learn together.
Sources:
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
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