Biblical Answer

Can I still be a good mother/father after this?

To address this question, let's break down the concerns that might be causing you to doubt your ability to be a good parent. Perhaps you're struggling with feelings of inadequacy, fear, or uncertainty about how to navigate the challenges of parenting. These emotions are normal, but they can be overwhelming if not addressed.

The good news is that you don't have to face these challenges alone. As a Christian parent, you have the opportunity to rely on God's guidance and wisdom. Prayer can be a powerful tool in helping you gain a clear perspective on what it means to be a good parent and in seeking Holy Spirit guidance on how to handle the parenting challenges that arise. Additionally, studying God's Word, such as 1 Corinthians 10:11-14, can remind you of God's goodness and love, which can be a source of strength and encouragement.

Ultimately, being a good parent is not about being perfect or meeting societal expectations. It's about being willing to be the bad guy at times, fighting for your child, and showing them God's love and forgiveness. As Phil's story illustrates, being a good parent means being proud of your child's growth and independence, even if it means letting go of control. By trusting in God's sovereignty and seeking His guidance, you can find the strength and wisdom you need to be a good parent, even in the midst of challenges and uncertainty.