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Your Question:
How do I explain this to my kids when I have no answers?
Answer:
As a father of two, I understand the challenges of not having answers for my kids. When Joshua, my 17-year-old son, or Rebecca, my 14-year-old daughter, come to me with questions, I try to be honest with them and acknowledge that I don't have all the answers. I get down to their level, look them in the eye, and ask open-ended questions to understand their concerns. For example, I might say, "You seem upset; what's going on?" or "You seem confused; can you tell me more about what's bothering you?" It's essential to create a safe space for them to express themselves without fear of judgment. I reassure them that they are loved and valued, regardless of the situation. Sometimes, they may not be ready to talk, and that's okay. I let them know that I'm there to listen and support them when they're ready to open up. I also try to avoid giving concrete answers that might lead to more questions or concerns. Instead, I ask more questions to help them think critically and come up with their own solutions. As a pastor, I've learned to rely on God for wisdom and guidance in parenting. I pray for specific wisdom for specific situations, and I wait for God to show me what to do or say. I believe that God wants me to be a partner in my children's growth and development, and I trust that He will provide me with the wisdom and guidance I need to navigate the challenges of parenting. By doing so, I can help my kids develop into confident, independent, and critical thinkers who can face life's challenges with courage and faith.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
the war on children
john macarthur
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