Biblical Answer

Lovingly look them in the eye and remind them of what remains true: "You are my child. I will always love you, even when you are disobedient. Because of that, there is always another chance to try." This statement is a great example of how to hide our tears from our kids. By reminding them of our love and the unconditional nature of it, we can help them feel more secure and less anxious about our emotions.

When we are feeling emotional, it's easy to get caught up in the moment and react impulsively. However, this can often lead to more problems and make our kids feel even more uncomfortable. Instead, take a step back, look them in the eye, and speak words of love and reassurance. This can help to calm the situation and give them a sense of stability. As the Bible says, "We love because he first loved us" (1 John 4:19). By showing our kids that we love them, even when we're feeling emotional, we can help them develop a stronger sense of self-worth and a deeper understanding of God's love for them.

It's also important to model healthy emotional expression for our kids. When we're feeling overwhelmed, it's okay to take a moment to collect ourselves and then speak to our kids in a calm and gentle tone. We can say something like, "Mommy/Daddy is feeling a little overwhelmed right now, but I love you and I'm here to take care of you." This can help them understand that it's okay to feel emotions and that we're not afraid to show them. By doing so, we can help them develop emotional intelligence and a stronger sense of self-awareness. As the Bible says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4). By modeling these qualities, we can help our kids develop a deeper understanding of God's love for them and for others.