How do we balance our own needs with helping others when our priorities are constantly being tested?

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As a pastor and a husband, I've learned that balancing our own needs with helping others is a delicate dance. It's easy to get caught up in the desire to help others, but if we're not careful, we can burn out and neglect our own needs. Stephen Covey's advice to align our schedules with our values is spot on. When our priorities are in order, we can make time for the things that truly matter, including our relationships with God, our family, and our community.

For me, it's about setting boundaries and being intentional about how I use my time. As a pastor, I have a responsibility to serve my congregation, but I also need to make time for my family and my own spiritual growth. It's not about being selfish, but about being responsible and taking care of myself so that I can be more effective in serving others. As the Bible says, "We should not necessarily gauge importance in terms of efficiency" (emphasis mine). Sometimes, taking the time to rest and recharge is essential to being able to serve others well.

Ultimately, it's about finding a balance between our own needs and the needs of others. As a Christian, I believe that we're called to love our neighbors as ourselves, but that doesn't mean we have to sacrifice our own well-being in the process. By prioritizing our relationships with God and our loved ones, we can find the strength and energy to serve others in meaningful ways. As my wife Susan always says, "You can't pour from an empty cup." By taking care of ourselves, we can be more effective in serving others and living out our values.

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