How do I keep my marriage from falling apart?

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As a pastor who has been married for 19 years, I've seen my fair share of struggles in marriages. But I've also seen the power of prayer and perseverance in keeping a marriage strong. My wife Susan and I have had our ups and downs, but we've always made a commitment to pray for our marriage and for each other. We've learned to communicate effectively, to listen to each other, and to work through our differences.

One of the most important things I've learned is that a marriage is not just about two individuals, but about two people becoming one in Christ. When we bring our marriage before God and ask Him to protect it, to heal it, and to make it a source of joy and life, He is faithful to answer. We must also be willing to do the hard work of growing and changing, of becoming more like Christ in our marriage. This means being willing to face our own weaknesses and sins, and to work on becoming more gentle, forgiving, and kind.

As I reflect on my own marriage, I'm reminded that it's not about getting our spouse to see things our way or to change for our benefit. It's about becoming a servant to our spouse, loving them unconditionally, and seeking to grow and change together. When we approach our marriage with a spirit of servanthood, we open ourselves up to the possibility of healing, growth, and restoration. And when we pray for our marriage, we can trust that God will do whatever it takes to make it work, even if it means striking down our own pride and self-centeredness.

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