Biblical Answer

Forgiveness is a crucial act of self-defense that stops the fatal bleeding of resentment. When we forgive someone who has wronged us, we are not just showing mercy to them, but also protecting ourselves from the poison of unforgiveness. Unforgiveness can eat us alive, causing us to become bitter, resentful, and ultimately, lost in our own darkness. By forgiving, we are taking back control of our emotions and our lives, and allowing God to work in us to bring about healing and restoration.

The process of forgiveness is not a one-time event, but a continuous process that requires us to relinquish our bitterness and resentment multiple times. It is not about forgetting the hurt or pain, but about not holding it against the person who caused it. Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength, as it takes courage to let go of our anger and hurt. When we forgive, we are not just forgiving the person who wronged us, but also ourselves, for holding onto the pain and resentment for so long.

The connection between our forgiving and being forgiven is closely tied to our relationship with God. When we forgive others, we are reminded of the forgiveness that God has shown us through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Our forgiveness of others is a reflection of God's forgiveness of us, and it is through this process that we are able to experience healing, restoration, and a deeper relationship with God. By forgiving ourselves and others, we are able to break free from the cycle of guilt, shame, and resentment, and experience the freedom and peace that comes from being forgiven and forgiven.