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Your Question:
How do I tell my kids that mom is dying and I won't be there for them?
Answer:
My friend, I can sense the weight of your question. It's a difficult conversation to have with your kids, but I believe honesty is the best approach. Before you sit them down, gently ask them to explain why they're asking this question. You might uncover another question behind it, like "Why do people die?" or "Why can't mom be with us forever?" Be prepared to have an open and honest conversation about the nature of death, and reassure them that God is always with them, even when we're not. When you do have this conversation, try to couch your words in a supportive way. Avoid saying things like "You'll be okay, I won't be there for you." Instead, say something like "We love you so much, and we'll always be with you in spirit. God will be with you too, and He'll guide you through tough times." Remember that your kids may become fearful when they learn they cannot trust their parents, so be sure to reassure them of your love and commitment to them. As a pastor, I've seen many families go through similar situations. My advice is to focus on building trust and encouraging your kids to develop a close relationship with God. Pray for them regularly, asking God to guide them and give them wisdom. Remind them that they are part of the family of God, and that they should find a good church community when they move away. By doing so, you'll be giving them a strong foundation to rely on, even when you're not there for them.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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