Biblical Answer

As an empty nester, you may feel a sense of loss and uncertainty about how to prioritize your own spiritual growth without neglecting your responsibilities. However, it's essential to recognize that your spiritual growth is not a luxury, but a necessity, especially in this season of life. The Bible teaches us that spiritual growth is not optional, and every thought, emotion, and decision we make should be guided by our love for God (Romans 12:2). As you navigate this new chapter, remember that your highest priority is to raise kids who possess a real faith, not just profess it (Proverbs 22:6). To prioritize your own spiritual growth, start by confessing your need for God's guidance and growth in your life. Ask Him to help you become more God-oriented and to shape your spirit into a servant's heart (Matthew 20:26-28).

To grow spiritually as an empty nester, focus on becoming like Jesus (Romans 8:29). This means developing a deeper understanding of God's character and nature, and allowing His Spirit to lead you in your daily life (Galatians 5:22-23). As you seek to become more like Jesus, remember that spiritual maturity is not self-absorbed; it's about being concerned for others and pursuing what will edify them (1 Corinthians 10:24). To cultivate this mindset, prioritize your relationship with God through daily fellowship, prayer, and Bible study. Ask yourself, "In what areas do I need to ask God for more growth in my life?" and "Would it be appropriate to ask Him for a new fullness of the Holy Spirit to accompany growth in my life?" (Ephesians 3:16-19).

As you prioritize your spiritual growth, don't neglect the importance of spiritual disciplines in your life. These practices, such as family Bible time, prayer, and service, can help you grow in your faith and become a more effective witness for Christ (Matthew 28:18-20). Remember, your spiritual growth is not a solo journey; it's a family affair. Involve your children in your spiritual disciplines, and model for them what it means to live a life surrendered to God. By prioritizing your spiritual growth as an empty nester, you'll be better equipped to serve God and others, and to leave a lasting legacy of faith in your children's lives. (Proverbs 22:6).