Biblical Answer

How do I tell my kids that dad's not coming home?!

This is a challenging conversation to have with your children, especially if you're a single parent. However, it's essential to approach this conversation with empathy and honesty. Before you have the conversation, take some time to prepare yourself emotionally and spiritually. As a Christian parent, you can draw strength and guidance from God's Word. Remember that God is sovereign, and He is always in control, even in the midst of difficult circumstances.

When you have the conversation with your kids, be honest and direct. Explain the situation clearly, using language that they can understand. Be prepared to answer their questions and provide reassurance that you will do your best to care for them and provide for their needs. It's also essential to validate their feelings and emotions, acknowledging that this is a difficult time for them. As the Bible says, "Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him" (Psalm 127:3). You can remind them that they are loved and cherished, not just by you, but also by God.

In the midst of this challenging situation, don't forget to lean on God's sovereignty and goodness. Remember that He is working all things together for good, even when it's hard to see (Romans 8:28). As you navigate this conversation, seek God's guidance and wisdom, and trust in His promise to be with you and your children always. You can pray with your kids, asking God to comfort and strengthen them during this time. As you do, remind them that they are not alone, and that God is always with them, guiding and directing them. By drawing near to God and seeking His guidance, you can find the strength and courage you need to have this difficult conversation with your kids.