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How do I tell my kids that dad's not coming home?!
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I'm John, a father of two teenagers, and I'm struggling to figure out how to have this conversation with them. My son Joshua is 17 and my daughter Rebecca is 14. I've been feeling frustrated with their behavior lately, and I'm not sure how to address it without causing more harm. I know I need to set clear boundaries and consequences, but I also want to make sure I'm not coming across as too harsh or dismissive. As a pastor, I've learned that it's essential to approach difficult conversations with empathy and understanding. I need to take a step back and evaluate our family's guidelines and rules to ensure they're clear and fair. I don't want to shame or guilt-trip my kids into behaving, but rather encourage them to take responsibility for their actions. I need to be specific about what I expect from them and what the consequences will be if they don't meet those expectations. I think the key is to have a calm and loving conversation with my kids, rather than yelling or punishing them. I want to explain why their behavior is causing problems and how it's affecting our family. I also want to listen to their perspective and work together to find solutions. By doing so, I hope to create a safe and supportive environment where my kids feel heard and understood, and where we can work together to build a stronger, more loving family.
Sources:
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
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