Biblical Answer

Control your temper as a Christian by first acknowledging that your anger may be a sinful tendency that needs to be addressed. Recognize that your anger may be a pattern of behavior that is not pleasing to God. As a Christian, you have the power to break free from this sinful tendency through prayer, self-reflection, and intentional actions. Begin by asking yourself questions about your behavior, such as whether you vent in anger or whether you are learning to control your outbursts. Be honest with yourself and seek God's help in overcoming your anger.

One way to control your temper is to anticipate and prepare for situations that may trigger anger. Anticipate what may be a pattern of behavior that leads to anger and take steps to prevent it. For example, if you tend to get angry when you're tired, make sure to get enough rest. If you tend to get angry when you're hungry, make sure to eat before you're hungry. By taking proactive steps to prevent anger, you can reduce the likelihood of outbursts. Additionally, learn to express your anger constructively, rather than venting it. This means expressing your anger to God and to others in a way that is respectful and constructive. This can be done by speaking the truth in love, as 1 Peter 2:17 says, "Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect."

Finally, seek God's help in controlling your temper. Pray for God to temper your anger with patience and love, as 1 Peter 2:17 says. Allow God to discipline you and put you into a right-standing relationship before Him. Remember that God disciplines those He loves, and that His discipline is a sign of His love for you. By seeking God's help and guidance, you can learn to control your temper and live a life that is pleasing to Him. As Andrew Murray said, "The great secret to a peaceful and happy life is to learn to obey God's commands, especially the command to love." By following God's commands and seeking His help, you can learn to control your temper and live a life that is filled with love, patience, and respect.