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Talking to Your Kids About Life's Big Questions

As a parent, you want to have open and honest conversations with your kids about life's big questions. One way to start this conversation is by asking your kids questions and encouraging them to ask questions in return. This helps to build trust and creates a safe space for discussion. When talking to your kids, it's essential to use "I" statements instead of "you" statements, which can come across as accusatory. For example, instead of saying "You've been on my mind a lot recently," say "I've been thinking about you a lot lately, and I wanted to talk to you about something."

Another crucial aspect of talking to your kids is to listen to their concerns and validate their feelings. Ask heart-probing questions like "How did that make you feel?" or "What do you think about that?" This helps to create a safe space for your child to express themselves without fear of judgment. When they do express their feelings, be sure to respond with empathy and understanding. It's also essential to be patient and not push your child to talk about something they're not ready to discuss. By doing so, you're teaching them how to work through conflict in a godly and gracious way.

Talking to your kids about life's big questions also provides an opportunity to share your faith and values with them. As they navigate the challenges of growing up, they need to know that they can trust God and His Word to guide them. By being a safe and supportive space for them to explore their questions and concerns, you're helping to build their faith and trust in God. Remember, the goal is not to have all the answers but to help your child develop a strong relationship with God and learn how to navigate life's big questions with confidence and faith. By doing so, you're giving them a gift that will last a lifetime – a deep and abiding faith in God.