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How do we show kindness to those around us when we're feeling tired?

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As someone who's been in ministry for a while, I've learned that when we're feeling tired, it's easy to get caught up in our own struggles and forget to show kindness to those around us. But the truth is, kindness is not just about feeling friendly, it's about choosing to behave in a way that's friendly, even when we don't feel like it. As the passage says, "the best thing you can do, very often, is to put on a friendly manner and behave as if you were a nicer person than you actually are." This isn't about pretending to be someone we're not, but about being intentional about how we interact with others.

When we're tired, it's easy to feel like we're just going through the motions, but as pastors, we have a responsibility to be a source of encouragement and hope to those around us. We need to remember that Christ is coming, and that gives us a sense of purpose and urgency. It's not just about us, but about the people we're serving and the impact we can have on their lives. By putting on a friendly manner and choosing to be kind, even when we don't feel like it, we can bring new strength and vigor to those around us.

As I reflect on my own life, I realize that I'm not just serving God, but also my family and community. When I'm feeling tired, I need to remember that I'm not alone, and that I have people who care about me and want to help. I can reach out to my wife Susan, or my kids Joshua and Rebecca, and ask for their support. I can also seek out other pastors and friends who can offer guidance and encouragement. By doing so, I can find the inner peace and joy that comes from living a life that's aligned with my values, and from serving others with kindness and compassion.

Sources:

mere christianity
c s lewis
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
depression
edward welch
practicing the way
john mark comer

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