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Your Question:
How can I still trust my family member after what they did?
Answer:
As a pastor and a parent, I've come to realize that trust is earned, not entitled. When my children were younger, I remember them asking me if I trusted them, and I would say, "I trust you, I know your heart is gold, but I'm hesitant to trust your judgment in some circumstances." This approach helped them understand that trust is a two-way street, and it's okay to have boundaries. In my experience, forgiveness is not the same as trust. When someone has hurt us or made a mistake, forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean that we can trust them again right away. However, through prayer and communication, we can work towards rebuilding trust. As the Bible says, "Pray for your family relationships, and there will be far fewer instances of strained or severed relationships." By praying for our family members and seeking God's guidance, we can create an environment where trust can be rebuilt. It's also essential to be aware of the signs of sin and addiction in our loved ones, even if they're not immediately apparent. As a parent, I've learned to listen for underlying issues and encourage honesty and openness in our relationships. By doing so, we can help our family members feel safe and supported, which is a crucial step in rebuilding trust. Ultimately, trust is a process that takes time, effort, and communication, but with God's help and guidance, it's possible to heal and restore our relationships.
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raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
jesus on trial
david limbaugh
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
building dynamic faith
jerry falwell
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