Biblical Answer

The Futility of Feeling Hopeless

When we feel hopeless, it can be tempting to give up on trying to do what's right. We may feel like nothing matters, and that our actions won't make a difference. This attitude, known as nihilism, can be superficial and stale, leading us to avoid taking action towards our desires. However, feeling a desire to help others is different from feeling that we ought to help them. We may genuinely desire what is good, but fail to take the necessary steps to move forward.

The Importance of Commitment

Committing to something we haven't prepared for can lead to failure in relationships and other areas of life. This is why it's essential to build margin into our lives and focus on what we're not going to do. By doing so, we can create space for growth and development, and avoid feeling overwhelmed. This approach can also help us prioritize our desires and focus on what truly matters. For instance, instead of hoping our partner will be self-seeking, we can focus on becoming the right person ourselves.

Finding Fulfillment in God

When we seek fulfillment in God, we can find satisfaction even when our desires are not met. This is because God's love and acceptance are not dependent on our actions or circumstances. By focusing on what we're not going to do, and building margin into our lives, we can create space for spiritual growth and development. This, in turn, can help us find fulfillment in God and live a more purposeful and meaningful life. As the Bible says, "There is nothing better for men than to be happy and to do good while they live." (Ecclesiastes 3:12) By prioritizing our relationship with God and living a life of commitment and responsibility, we can find hope and fulfillment even in the midst of difficulties.