Biblical Answer

The Pain of Confrontation

We've all been there - faced with a difficult conversation, a confrontation that leaves us feeling drained, anxious, and uncertain about the outcome. The situation described in the passage is a prime example of this. The speaker is trying to have a honest conversation with Mike about his behavior, but Mike is resistant and defensive. He's not ready to face the reality of his actions and the impact they're having on his relationships, including his relationship with God.

The Struggle to Face the Truth

The passage highlights the struggle we often face when confronted with the truth about ourselves. Mike is in denial, unable to see the harm he's causing and the pain he's inflicting on others. He's hoping for a quick fix, a medical explanation for his problems, rather than facing the root issues that need to be addressed. This is a common human response - we'd rather avoid the pain of confrontation and the possibility of change than face the truth about ourselves. But as the speaker so eloquently puts it, "What I am most concerned about is what this says about your relationship with God."

The Importance of Confrontation

Confrontation is never easy, but it's often necessary for growth and change. In this case, the speaker is not trying to attack or criticize Mike, but rather to help him see the impact of his actions and to encourage him to take responsibility for his behavior. This kind of confrontation can be painful, but it's also an opportunity for growth, for Mike to confront his own flaws and weaknesses and to seek help and guidance from God. As the speaker encourages Mike, "Keep an eye on the calendar and refuse to allow much time to go by without coming together physically. If it has been too long, ask God to show you why." This kind of confrontation is not about guilt or shame, but about honesty, accountability, and a desire to grow and change.