Biblical Answer

Being a Good Person Despite Being Unable to Help Others

Being a good person is not solely defined by our ability to help others. While serving and caring for those in need is a vital aspect of Christianity, it is not the only measure of a person's goodness. As the Bible teaches, we can be good for the mere sake of goodness, even when it doesn't bring us pleasure or benefit (Matthew 25:31-46). Our actions can be guided by a sense of duty, responsibility, and obedience to God's commands, rather than solely by our feelings or personal gain.

However, when we are unable to help others due to illness or disability, it can be challenging to feel like we are living up to our Christian values. But this is where the sovereignty of God comes into play. We must trust that God is working in and through our circumstances, even when they are difficult or painful (Romans 8:28). Rather than focusing on what we cannot do, we can focus on what God is doing in and through us, even in our suffering. As the Apostle Paul wrote, "When I am weak, then I am strong" (2 Corinthians 12:10).

In this sense, our inability to help others can actually be an opportunity for spiritual growth and dependence on God. When we are forced to rely on others for support and care, we are reminded of our own limitations and weaknesses. This can lead to a deeper understanding of our own meagerness and a greater reliance on God's power and provision. Ultimately, being a good person is not about what we can do for others, but about our relationship with God and our obedience to His commands, even in the midst of suffering and disability. As we seek to live out our faith, we can trust that God is working in and through us, even when we are unable to help others.