What does love look like in the midst of chaos?

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As a pastor, I've seen my fair share of chaos in people's lives. But I believe that love can be a powerful force in the midst of chaos. It's not just a feeling, but a choice to prioritize the well-being of others. In my own marriage to Susan, we've had our fair share of ups and downs over the past 19 years. But through it all, we've learned to love each other not just for who we are, but for who we're becoming. We've had to navigate conflicts and disagreements, but we've always chosen to prioritize our love for each other.

I think this is what Gary Chapman means when he talks about the "illusion" of romantic love. When we're first in love, we tend to idealize the other person and see them as perfect. But as we get to know them better, we realize that they're not perfect, and that's okay. Love isn't about idealizing someone, but about accepting them for who they are, flaws and all. My wife Susan is not perfect, but I love her for who she is, and she loves me for who I am. And that's what makes our marriage strong.

As a father, I've seen my children go through their own struggles and conflicts. But through it all, I've tried to model for them what it means to love unconditionally. When Joshua and Rebecca are going through tough times, I try to be there for them, to listen to them, and to offer them guidance and support. I'm not perfect, but I'm trying to be a good example of what it means to love them, even when they're not perfect. And I think that's what love looks like in the midst of chaos - it's not about idealizing others, but about accepting them for who they are, and choosing to love them anyway.

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