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Your Question:
what's the best way to talk to my kids about this?
Answer:
When it comes to talking to my kids about sensitive topics, I've learned that listening is just as important as speaking. Take the time to listen to their insignificant issues now, and they'll be more likely to share their significant issues as they get older. When they do share, give them your full attention, remain at eye level, and show them that you're truly hearing what they're saying. This helps build trust and strong relationships. When my kids are upset or angry, I try to get down to their level and ask open-ended questions like "You seem sad; what happened?" This helps me understand the motive behind their behavior and reassure them that they're still loved. I also try to model how to disagree without being disagreeable, and I give them more yeses than nos. By doing so, I'm showing them that I value their thoughts and feelings. As my kids get older, I've found that it's essential to have open and honest conversations with them. For older children, I ask them to reflect on how they might have contributed to a disagreement or argument. This helps them see things from another perspective and take responsibility for their actions. I also encourage them to look at each other and share what they like and love about each other, which can help diffuse tension and strengthen their bond.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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