As a pastor and a husband, I've seen firsthand how love can be put to the test in the chaos of everyday life. When our loves are unstable and multiple, our very identities can shift and transform. This is especially true in families, where the paradigm of disordered loves can lead to destructive behaviors and a sense of chaos. But when love is put to the test, it's not just about emotions or ethics - it's about the highest mode of knowing, as described in the New Testament.
In our family, we've experienced our fair share of chaos and challenges. As a parent, I've seen my children struggle with their own loves and identities, and as a husband, I've seen Susan and me navigate our own relationships and priorities. But through it all, we've learned that love is not just a feeling, but a choice - a choice to prioritize our relationships, to put others first, and to seek the well-being of those around us. This is what I call sacrificial love, and it's the key to building strong, lasting relationships.
When love is put to the test, it's easy to get caught up in our own emotions and desires. But as Christians, we're called to a higher standard - one that prioritizes love, light, and life. This means that even in the midst of chaos and uncertainty, we can choose to love, to serve, and to prioritize the needs of others. It's not always easy, but it's worth it - for in the end, love will overflow, and our relationships will be stronger and more resilient as a result.