Biblical Answer

The Loss of Self and the Search for Meaning

The loss of sense of self, job, business, and family can be a devastating experience, leaving one feeling lost and uncertain about their future. This experience can be seen as a catalyst for spiritual growth, a time to re-evaluate one's priorities and values. In this context, it's essential to understand that our sense of self is deeply connected to our relationship with God and our purpose in life.

The Bible teaches that we were made by God to create (Genesis 1:27-31). When we create in a thoughtful and worshipful manner, whether it's preparing meals, decorating a home, or responsibly raising children, we feel a sense of fulfillment and purpose. However, when we focus on ourselves and our own desires, we can become disconnected from our true purpose and feel unfulfilled. This disconnection can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and anxiety, which can manifest as depression, anger, or fear.

In this season of loss, it's crucial to seek a different perspective and gain a new understanding of our situation. The Bible encourages us to look at our values and ask if they are helping or hindering us in achieving our goal (Proverbs 4:23). It's also essential to recognize that our sense of self is not defined by our accomplishments or possessions but by our relationship with God and our identity in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17). By seeking God's guidance and wisdom, we can discover a new sense of purpose and meaning, even in the midst of loss and uncertainty. This journey requires courage, humility, and a willingness to let go of our old self and trust in God's sovereignty and goodness. Ultimately, it's through this process of surrender and trust that we can find a deeper sense of self and purpose, one that is rooted in our relationship with God and our identity in Christ.