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Your Question:
How do I explain my situation to my friends?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've learned that it's essential to be a good listener, especially when it comes to our friends and family members. When someone comes to you with a concern or issue, it's tempting to offer unsolicited advice or try to fix the problem right away. However, this can often come across as judgmental or controlling. Instead, I've found that simply listening to what they have to say and offering a supportive ear can be incredibly powerful. My wife Susan and I have made a conscious effort to create a safe and non-judgmental space in our home where our children, Joshua and Rebecca, can feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings with us. We've learned that by listening to them and avoiding the urge to offer advice or criticism, we can build stronger relationships and help them develop a sense of self-worth. This approach has been incredibly valuable in our role as parents and has helped us to be better friends to our children. When it comes to explaining our situation to friends, I think it's essential to be honest and authentic. If someone is asking for advice or guidance, it's okay to share our own experiences and insights, but it's equally important to avoid being pushy or prescriptive. By being a good listener and offering support, we can build trust and deepen our relationships with others. As the Bible says, "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2).
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raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
basic christianity
john stott
depression
edward welch
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
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