Biblical Answer

Understanding the Source of Anger

Anger is a natural response to a perceived injustice or unmet expectation. However, when anger becomes a habitual response, it can be a sign of deeper issues. The Bible teaches us that anger is a result of not trusting God (Psalm 103:8, 130:3-4). When we are angry, we are essentially saying that we don't trust God's sovereignty and goodness in our lives. This lack of trust can lead to bitterness, resentment, and a sense of entitlement, which can be damaging to our relationships and our spiritual well-being.

Confronting Anger and Resentment

To deal with anger and resentment, we must first acknowledge that they are symptoms of a deeper issue - a lack of trust in God. We must be willing to confront our own hearts and examine why we are holding onto anger and resentment. This may involve seeking forgiveness from God and others, as well as seeking healing and restoration in our relationships. As Margaret said, "Youve first got to decide that you can be free. Then youve got to quit using your story as an excuse." We must be willing to let go of our anger and resentment and trust God's sovereignty and goodness, even when things don't go as we planned.

Finding Freedom from Anger

Freedom from anger and resentment comes when we learn to trust God and His goodness. This requires a deepening of our relationship with Him and a willingness to surrender our expectations and desires to Him. As we trust God, we will begin to see that He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). We will learn to trust His sovereignty and goodness, even in the midst of difficult circumstances. This trust will lead to a sense of peace and contentment, even when things don't go as we planned. Ultimately, freedom from anger and resentment is found in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, who is the source of all peace and joy. As we trust in Him, we will find the freedom to let go of our anger and resentment and live a life that reflects His love and goodness.