Biblical Answer

When you're barely holding on, it can be overwhelming to keep your family afloat. However, as a Christian, I want to emphasize that God is our ultimate source of strength and guidance. In Psalm 121:1-2, we read, "I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." God is our rock, our shelter, and our provider. When we put our trust in Him, He gives us the wisdom and resources to navigate even the most challenging situations.

In practical terms, here are a few ways to keep your family close when you're barely holding on: prioritize family time, such as having regular family dinners. This can be as simple as gathering around the table for a meal or game night. Make an effort to have meaningful conversations and encourage each other, rather than focusing on conflicts and criticisms. When conflicts do arise, teach your children to work things out with each other, rather than running to you for solutions. This helps them develop essential life skills, such as communication, empathy, and problem-solving.

Another helpful practice is to write a family mission statement together. This can be a powerful tool for keeping your family focused on what's truly important. By regularly reading and discussing your mission statement, you can remind each other of your shared values and goals, and work together to live out your faith in a way that honors God. As Proverbs 22:6 says, "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it." By prioritizing your family's spiritual growth and well-being, you can create a strong foundation for your family's future, even in the midst of challenging circumstances.